Ok, so there are some basic life rules that some people just never got the message about. If you are guilty of any of the following, please a) stop it and b) talk yourself out of the gene pool.
Stopping in the middle of a sidewalk or hallway will get you shoved out of the way. Move to the side if you've stopped to check your phone, you're lost or you just want to look at something. If you are stationary in a place that is obstructive, do not be surprised when someone gets upset or, like me, hip checks your stupid ass out of the way.
Not everyone works Monday to Friday 9-5 or works night shifts etc, Therefore, when you're out in public or at home having a loud and raucous time, there is a good chance you're ruining someone's rest. This is the basic principle of not being a dick. Not everyone lives your lifestyle, so don't impose yours on others. If a neighbour asks you to turn your music down at 9pm, they aren't necessarily just a jerk, maybe they work the graveyard shift and you're ruining their sleep.
Being a parent doesn't make you a better or worse person than other people. Just because you have kids and I don't, do not act like you're better than me. The world is overpopulated and all you did was make it worse. On the flip side, just because I didn't have kids, I am not better or smarter than you and if I start acting like you are dumb for having kids, smack me.
Driver picks the music. As the shotgun position passenger, you are the driver's assistant, you do not make the choices. If you are sitting in the backseat, you have no say in anything at all- not even bathroom stops. You sit there and shut up and help the driver.
Do not post all of your issues on social networking. Nobody needs to know every intimate detail of your life. If I needed to know that much detail about you, we'd hang out more rather than be passing acquaintances on a website. Picture, general stuff etc is fine, but I really don't care that you just woke up, what kind of sandwich you had or every relationship detail between you and the latest love of your life for the month.
Low crotch jeans make you look stupid. I don't care if they are fashionable, they make you look like you crapped in your pants. I will not take anything you say seriously while I'm busy wondering if you don't know how to dress yourself or if you've suffered a sporadic rectal prolapse and that's why your crotch is between your knees.
Left-wing people hate being associated with SJW's and feminazis just like right-wing people hate being associated with the Klan and Trump. Extremists of anything give the rest a bad name. Not all lefties are pothead hippies who think everything is offensive and think everyone should live on a commune. Not all right wingers are racist homophobes who sleep with their sisters and have 4 teeth. Stop assuming everyone is a worst case scenario.
White Girl Blogging
Showing posts with label complain. Show all posts
Showing posts with label complain. Show all posts
Friday, 28 October 2016
Thursday, 7 May 2015
A Complaint about Complainers
Wah wah wah....that's all we ever hear anymore. No matter what you do or what you say, someone complains. Everyone has something to complain about. Have you ever noticed though, that the people who complain the most are often the people who DO the least about it? Stop it. Grow up. Take responsibility. Take action.
People who whine about the government but don't vote. If you didn't care enough to make your voice heard when you were asked, don't whine like you care afterwards. The idea of democratic elections is to represent the people, so how can you then complain that the person in power isn't representing your views when you didn't even represent your own views?? Even if your candidate doesn't win, you still made your voice heard and count, sometimes one vote can make a difference. If you don't make your choice, you don't get to complain about the result, end of story.
People who complain about not being fit when they're eating an entire bag of chips. I complain about being fat a lot...but there is a difference is being upset about the result or being upset with yourself for not doing what you know you should. I used to complain about being fat but then scarf down a bag of chips and a 6-pack of beer and still wonder why the pounds weren't coming off. Nowadays I actually try, I try to eat right and I exercise...so when I complain, it's about the disappointment in myself, not that I'm owed anything. If you are actively trying to get fit and are struggling, go ahead and complain! It's hard work! But if you spend every day sitting on your ass on the couch eating nachos and drinking milkshakes....you don't get to complain until you get moving.
People who have everything done for them but complain about how it's done. This includes everything from kids complaining about how their mom does their laundry or you don't like how your spouse cleans the house. If someone is doing something for you, be grateful! If you really hate how it's done, do it yourself. Ok, this doesn't apply to surgeons, mechanics and other trained specialistz...in that case just find another one. But really, if you don't like the fabric softener I use, do your own laundry. If you don't like the hotels I booked, you plan the trip.
Anything teenagers complain about. Shut up. You know nothing about anything. You have no real world experience, you don't have to support yourself, nobody relies on you and you live in a selfish bubble. You have nothing to complain about that won't be over in 4-5 years tops.
People who complain about dating but who don't try. "It's so hard to meet someone"...are you trying online? No. Are you going out to social events 'No'....are you open to meeting different kinds of people "No, he/she has to look like Brad Pitt/Kim Kardashian and be perfect or I'm out". Ok...dating can suck sometimes, I concede that. My point is that most people don't really try. They go on 2 online dates and then can't understand why they haven't met their soul-mate. Or they look like an Orc but refuse to date anyone who doesn't look like a Calvin Klein model. Be open, be available, be someone you would want to date.
People who complain about the new sex-ed in Ontario. Please get your super conservative moron faces off of my news feed. Kids have always had sex-ed but it's so behind the time that what is currently being taught is barely relevant anymore. They will learn it from their friends and online...wouldn't you rather they have a decently built foundation of knowledge first? Are you really going to explain sexting to them? I doubt it.
People who complain about their job but work there for 30 years. Why? You spend a large chunk of your life at work, don't you want to be happy? Look for something better. Go back to school. Start some new initiatives to make it more enjoyable. Sitting there and being a miserable git isn't going to make the clock tick any faster or the job more enjoyable. After a certain amount of time of not doing anything about the problem...the problem becomes your own fault.
Nobody likes a whiner. If you have a problem, deal with it. If you can't fix it, at least do what you can to make it better. Or, at least have the decency to hide your misery behind alcoholism and leave the rest of us out of it. "Do you know who cares even less about your problems than you do?....Everybody".
If you're working at it, come complain to me all you want, you've earned it. If you are complaining because you think the world owes you something...I will personally slap you back to the Dark Ages.
People who whine about the government but don't vote. If you didn't care enough to make your voice heard when you were asked, don't whine like you care afterwards. The idea of democratic elections is to represent the people, so how can you then complain that the person in power isn't representing your views when you didn't even represent your own views?? Even if your candidate doesn't win, you still made your voice heard and count, sometimes one vote can make a difference. If you don't make your choice, you don't get to complain about the result, end of story.
People who complain about not being fit when they're eating an entire bag of chips. I complain about being fat a lot...but there is a difference is being upset about the result or being upset with yourself for not doing what you know you should. I used to complain about being fat but then scarf down a bag of chips and a 6-pack of beer and still wonder why the pounds weren't coming off. Nowadays I actually try, I try to eat right and I exercise...so when I complain, it's about the disappointment in myself, not that I'm owed anything. If you are actively trying to get fit and are struggling, go ahead and complain! It's hard work! But if you spend every day sitting on your ass on the couch eating nachos and drinking milkshakes....you don't get to complain until you get moving.
People who have everything done for them but complain about how it's done. This includes everything from kids complaining about how their mom does their laundry or you don't like how your spouse cleans the house. If someone is doing something for you, be grateful! If you really hate how it's done, do it yourself. Ok, this doesn't apply to surgeons, mechanics and other trained specialistz...in that case just find another one. But really, if you don't like the fabric softener I use, do your own laundry. If you don't like the hotels I booked, you plan the trip.
Anything teenagers complain about. Shut up. You know nothing about anything. You have no real world experience, you don't have to support yourself, nobody relies on you and you live in a selfish bubble. You have nothing to complain about that won't be over in 4-5 years tops.
People who complain about dating but who don't try. "It's so hard to meet someone"...are you trying online? No. Are you going out to social events 'No'....are you open to meeting different kinds of people "No, he/she has to look like Brad Pitt/Kim Kardashian and be perfect or I'm out". Ok...dating can suck sometimes, I concede that. My point is that most people don't really try. They go on 2 online dates and then can't understand why they haven't met their soul-mate. Or they look like an Orc but refuse to date anyone who doesn't look like a Calvin Klein model. Be open, be available, be someone you would want to date.
People who complain about the new sex-ed in Ontario. Please get your super conservative moron faces off of my news feed. Kids have always had sex-ed but it's so behind the time that what is currently being taught is barely relevant anymore. They will learn it from their friends and online...wouldn't you rather they have a decently built foundation of knowledge first? Are you really going to explain sexting to them? I doubt it.
People who complain about their job but work there for 30 years. Why? You spend a large chunk of your life at work, don't you want to be happy? Look for something better. Go back to school. Start some new initiatives to make it more enjoyable. Sitting there and being a miserable git isn't going to make the clock tick any faster or the job more enjoyable. After a certain amount of time of not doing anything about the problem...the problem becomes your own fault.
Nobody likes a whiner. If you have a problem, deal with it. If you can't fix it, at least do what you can to make it better. Or, at least have the decency to hide your misery behind alcoholism and leave the rest of us out of it. "Do you know who cares even less about your problems than you do?....Everybody".
If you're working at it, come complain to me all you want, you've earned it. If you are complaining because you think the world owes you something...I will personally slap you back to the Dark Ages.
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)